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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Design my entire life inside chronic self-sufficiency and/or addictions (eg. workaholism), thus further isolating myself.

🌀  Contort self to be what others want, so to be loved, accepted and/or validated.

🌀  Overstay relationships that I’ve long outgrown because I can’t bear ending up alone and/or abandoning others.

🌀  Often feel left out or left behind personally and/or professionally (eg. last one picked for dodge ball, first one laid off from team).

🌀  Lingering sense of discontentment with where I am in life and what I have.

🌀  Avoid joining communities, so to abandon others before they can abandon me.

🌀  Leave relationships during conflict rather than stay to resolve misunderstanding and deepen intimacy.

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am alone

🗝 I am not wanted

🗝 I am abandoned

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in this identity matrix, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Practice embodying gratitude by deeply seeing / appreciating everything that I already have.

🌹 Maturate my capacity for reading the room and understanding the subtleties of social cues.

🌹 Stay and work through challenges without severing connections or stunting my own growth.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, my wounds become my greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany LeaAUTHOR • When Ellany said yes to freedompreneurship, she had no idea it'd turn into a spiritual quest of reclaiming the 1,000 pieces of her soul. #1000reclamations