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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Feel like the black sheep of the family, never really fitting in anywhere, and longing for true belonging.

🌀  Carry heavy false belief that life is lonely, unkind or not made for people like me.

🌀  Suffer from severe self-doubt and/or self-hatred due to lack of loving recognition, by self and/or others, of my unique gifts.

🌀  Chronically feel unwelcomed and/or left out, as if my person is not wanted/valued.

🌀  Fail to create supportive structures to channel my gifts in highly profitable, valuable and impactful ways.

🌀  Unable to see my gifts and/or withhold them, as if they don’t matter to the world.

🌀  Wait for others to invite or include me, rather than initiate my own participation.

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am a reject

🗝 I don’t belong

🗝 I am a freak

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in this identity matrix, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Cultivate a sacred environment at home and beyond to ground me to the natural rhythms of earth.

🌹 Join groups with common interests, then learn to engage within the rules of the group, while maintaining unique self-expression, knowing that true belonging is effortless.

🌹 Strengthen social skills of openness, curiosity, attunement, and reading the room.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, my wounds become my greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Burden Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Deprived Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Failure Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Freak Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Insufficient Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Invisible Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Powerless Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The "Too Much" Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Unsafe Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany LeaAUTHOR • When Ellany said yes to freedompreneurship, she had no idea it'd turn into a spiritual quest of reclaiming the 1,000 pieces of her soul.