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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Feel like the black sheep of the family, never really fitting in anywhere, and longing for true belonging.

🌀  Carry heavy false belief that life is lonely, unkind or not made for people like me.

🌀  Suffer from severe self-doubt and/or self-hatred due to lack of loving recognition, by self and/or others, of my unique gifts.

🌀  Chronically feel unwelcomed and/or left out, as if my person is not wanted/valued.

🌀  Fail to create supportive structures to channel my gifts in highly profitable, valuable and impactful ways.

🌀  Unable to see my gifts and/or withhold them, as if they don’t matter to the world.

🌀  Wait for others to invite or include me, rather than initiate my own participation.

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, drowning in overwhelm or stuck in isolation?
Then one of your inner wounded children may be running the show. Identify your top 3 Wounded Child Archetypes to reclaim your peace, time and freedom.

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WOUNDED CHILD archetypeS TEST 

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am a reject

🗝 I don’t belong

🗝 I am a freak

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in these archetypes, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Cultivate a sacred environment at home and beyond to ground me to the natural rhythms of earth.

🌹 Join groups with common interests, then learn to engage within the rules of the group, while maintaining unique self-expression, knowing that true belonging is effortless.

🌹 Strengthen social skills of openness, curiosity, attunement, and reading the room.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, drowning in overwhelm or stuck in isolation?
Then one of your inner wounded children may be running the show. Identify your top 3 Wounded Child Archetypes to reclaim your peace, time and freedom.

⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD archetypeS TEST 

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, my wounds become my greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Burden Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Deprived Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Failure Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Freak Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Insufficient Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Invisible Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Powerless Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The "Too Much" Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Unsafe Child • Wounded Child Archetypes

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany Lea Author • Ellany Lea is a success coach, master freedompreneur, and modern mystic. She writes about the 4 types of knowing as a pathway to full fledged freedom.