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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Extremely high expectations of self/others to be good, perfect, altruistic at all times.

🌀  Vacillate between extreme perfectionism and extreme rebellion/non-conformity.

🌀  Take on others’ poor behavior as my own fault, enabling them to avoid personal responsibility and accountability.

🌀  Act as heroic martyr who fixes problems (real or imaginary) in order to feel good about self and establish self-worth.

🌀  Suffer from all or nothing thinking, with little room for infractions by self / others.

🌀  Prone to comparing worst of self to best of others, thus reducing own worth.

🌀  Vacillate between victim “everything is my fault” and blame “everything is your fault”.

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am bad

🗝 I am wrong

🗝 I am a mistake

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in this identity matrix, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Work smarter, not harder. Choose depth over speed. Pull back to launch forward.

🌹 Give self permission / time / space to dream big again from the depths of childhood innocence.

🌹 Only enter relationships that feel mutually supportive of each other’s fulfillment and success.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, my wounds become my greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Burden Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Deprived Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Failure Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Freak Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Insufficient Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Invisible Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Powerless Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The "Too Much" Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Unsafe Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany LeaAUTHOR • When Ellany said yes to freedompreneurship, she had no idea it'd turn into a spiritual quest of reclaiming the 1,000 pieces of her soul.