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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Constantly misunderstood and told to calm down, be quiet and/or stop moving.

🌀  Others are intimidated / overwhelmed by the bigness of my ambition, energy, speed, creative pursuits, voice, etc.

🌀  Chronically repress my needs / desires, never asking for their fulfillment, fearing that they are “too much” for others.

🌀  Overstay in relationships / situations that require self-containment, thus denying my soul’s grandest and truest self-expression.

🌀  Always shrink to meet others where they’re at and/or have dramatic outbursts just to be seen, heard and/or understood.

🌀  Others feel threatened when I am fully myself and therefore ostracize / leave me.

🌀  Incapable of receiving, always the giver.

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am crazy

🗝 I am too intense

🗝 I am too much

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in this identity matrix, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Practice articulating needs / desires and receiving guilt-free support from others.

🌹 Only enter into relationships that feel equal and mutually enriching (emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically) and stop settling for less.

🌹 Develop decision making strategies based on clear boundaries and strong intuition.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, suffocating in perfectionism or drowning in overwhelm during business expansion?
Then one (of 12) of your inner wounded child has hijacked your CEO.
 Reserve a seat to name the wound, shed the lie and free the soul. ︎⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD IDENTITY MATRIX E-SALON

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, my wounds become my greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Burden Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Deprived Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Failure Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The Freak Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Insufficient Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Invisible Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix
The Powerless Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​​
The "Too Much" Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix​
The Unsafe Child • Wounded Child Identity Matrix

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany LeaAUTHOR • When Ellany said yes to freedompreneurship, she had no idea it'd turn into a spiritual quest of reclaiming the 1,000 pieces of her soul.