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There is a freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment and enchantment. The path of Grace, lined with 22,000+ documented moments of daily gratitude (1999-2018), lead me here. Enjoy the daily wisdom funnies, especially the present day commentaries!

8 moons ago...
LMAO! Our dentist is going to give us Client of the Year awards for frequency of visits! LOL! No hace falta darnos una corona, ya tenemos una cada una. LOL! #sisterhood #insidejoke #remember
[Commentary: The translation is: no need to give us a crown, we already have one each. LOL!]

82 moons ago...
The work with Dr Divi is helping me to see myself and to anchor that. Funny she talked about walking into a room as the best chick ever and met her husband there. That's what I will do! Faced with reality that I am whole and complete. I'm not any less without a mate. I am already whole. I am already complete. #firsts #turningpoint #quest
[Commentary: My how powerful Culture is to program me to believe that as a woman, if you are unmarried, you are worthless. Thank god false truths can be re-programmed. #amen]

70 moons ago...
As I Skype with Se young, learning to say it out loud and express myself to my partner. #firsts #turningpoint
[Commentary: Wow, another example of Culture brainwashing me with a false truth that girls are meant to be unsee and unheard. If they show up and speak up, it means sudden death. #letgo]

35 moons ago...
Empty space is sooo uncomfortable #truth
[Commentary:... in the context of having prepared all the pieces of my group Mastermind launch and now all there is left is to wait :S]

50 moons ago...
When about to complete coaching journey with my clients, I ask what they want with such pureness and sans ego, having embodied The Law of Detachment, and source those closing words of my Leadership Tribe: You're so true, innocent, pure, loving. #remember #truth

68 moons ago...
Flamenco class olé!! Honor my inner goddess! #firsts

2 moons ago...
OMG I feel so lucky, I get to coach amazing women, we are connected, I am contributing deeply to their insight, enlightenment, and freedom. OMG instead of sitting by myself with my neurotic thoughts, I get to spend time cherishing them, in exchange for their appreciation of my depth, clairvoyance and guidance. OMG I feel so lucky to have this work, it’s so fulfilling and meaningful and liberating and humbling. Thank you God, thank you me, thank you others. Holy trinity!!! #truth #empowerment #enlightenment #remember

58 moons ago...
After Leadership R1, have inner confidence to tell a man that I do not get intimate with him outside a committed relationship. So wait or run away fast! #empowerment
[Commentary: Wow, this blog entry is full of Culture's indoctrination. This one shaped me to believe that a girl has to give sex to a guy to receive love. How f*cked up is that?!? WTF is wrong with this Culture?!? #inquiry]

22 moons ago...
People aren't meant to be in your life forever... #truth

70 moons ago...
Joyce suggesting that I feel the loneliness. Be with it and see what emerges. #sisterhood #mentor

46 moons ago...
Perfect timing: RingCentral conference call option just rolled out in Canada 2 weeks before I needed it! #synchrodestiny

53 moons ago...
X taking over my apt lease asap. Yay! Thank you Universe. #synchrodestiny

69 moons ago...
Client X showed up in a ball of stress. I'm so proud of myself for not having absorbed that. I didn't stress. I knew how to find a solution. I will hold your hand and explain everything to you in detail. You're safe here. We worked, laughed and she left empowered and de-stressed. She didn't even ask me about my rate. I charged her my fullest rate. The power of building and maintaining relationships. I'm sooo good at it!! #remember #grace #ease

49 moons ago...
Lemon ice cubes from hand squeezed lemons gives me joy #thelittlethings
[Commentary: Thank you Lancy for the tip! She's my acupuncturist extraordinaire.]

17 moons ago...
Wow, Adrienne and Stéphanie took precious time out of their busy and full lives to write a detailed email of their feedback for testing my Overachievers Personality Test. Wow!

5 moons ago...
Yesss, broke another loop: X chose movie with his mom over me. Could have thrown a tantrum [which would be my 3rd or 4th tantrum in my entire existence because I was never allowed to throw one as a kid] and ignored him under the pretence that I’d fallen asleep. But I didn't. #growing #enlightenment #grace
[Commentary: So grateful for Maria and I's kitchen table debriefs about her Gestalt psychotherapy training! #sisterhood]

73 moons ago...
You've got this Energy about you. #firsts
[Commentary: O. M. G. I can't remember who said this, but I do NOT remember having heard this. It was only 73 moons later, so about 5.5 years later, that someone said it again and I really, really, really heard it. Like saw it, felt it, knew it type of heard. Geez, how we don't see ourselves and our own greatness. #enlightenment #empowerment #growing]

69 moons ago...
I get to swim in my cloud bed and examine what made me leave corporate almost  a year ago. I liked the people. I didn't align with the awful way they treated the staff. I had $9k from tax refunds, plus $60k in savings. At worst, I'd get another job. I am bold. I am courageous. I am strong. I take risks. There is nothing shaming about taking a full time job with freeform to lessen my anxiety and create more balance. #epic #turningpoint
[Commentary: Turns out, my worst fears of having to work a 9-5 and/or going bankrupt have never been realised. Gosh, I wish I didn't spend so much time letting fear destroy my joy... #wisdom #liveandlearn]

90 moons ago...
Closer and closer snuggling #thelittlethings

35 moons ago...
Hmm... interesting feeling shame of not being rich enough for X and making up a story that my brother dropped me off, when really I took the bus... and love taking the bus, and have zero need and zero want for a car... Hmm... X was definitely meant to cross my path to teach me that I don't belong in his country club / inheritance / trust fund babies tribe. I've come so far!!!
[Commentary: I'm learning the difference between pride as patriarchy presented (aka a deadly sin) and pride as I feel it (aka seeing my own rising and feeling so much love and admiration for myself for my growth). No inheritance, no trust fund, no hand out, no financial aid from my parents. In fact, it's me who financially supported THEM. What a wild ride to create from my teeny tiny little hands, instead of being fed with a silver spoon. Definitely more fulfilment and awe and empowerment and joy in my achievements!]

68 moons ago...
Hmm... $1410.84 deposit from strate... Neat! Window special levy refund. I may have double paid. Oops. Who knows :p #lol
[Commentary: Hahaha, hey I'll take unexpected money. Any day! :D]

17 moons ago...
Aww loved that Sindy reads my blogs and thinks I have such depth of insight #sniff #sisterhood

With infinite grace, freedom on!

xo, Ella

Ellany LeaAUTHOR • Hi, I'm Ella, founder of Guide to Grace. I invite you to join me for an exquisite freedom at the intersection of: entrepreneurship, enlightenment, and enchantmentFollow