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SYMPTOMS + PERPETUATING BEHAVIORS

Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Rarely content because life is ruled by impossibly high standards of perfection.

🌀  Chronically over-give, over-do and over-compensate just to get the same success and/or validation as everyone else.

🌀  Organize life around duty and survival (eg. debt, clutter, barren home) rather than thriving (eg. beauty, joy, pleasure).

🌀  Imposter syndrome (fear / anxiety of being discovered as a fraud, freeze at key times).

🌀  Fear that if I shine too bright, I’ll be burnt at the stake or hacked to pieces again.

🌀  Chronically settle for less in relationships / situations (eg. dating losers or “out of my league” superstars who will leave me).

🌀  Believe that others get love, but I don’t or only if I’m the best at everything.  

  

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, drowning in overwhelm or stuck in isolation?
Then one of your inner wounded children may be running the show. Identify your top 3 Wounded Child Archetypes to reclaim your peace, time and freedom.

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WOUNDED CHILD archetypeS TEST 

 

 

False Identities to Release

🗝 I am not enough

🗝 I am unlovable

🗝 I am insufficient

 

Maturation + Integration Practices

If you do recognize yourself in these archetypes, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that wounded child.

🌹 Mirror and validate my own existence as something precious, unique, lovable and of high value.

🌹 Cultivate the courage to say “no” (boundaries) and leave people / situations that bring me no joy.

🌹 Practice profound gratitude for all that I already have and all that I already am.

 

 

Are you spinning in busyness, drowning in overwhelm or stuck in isolation?
Then one of your inner wounded children may be running the show. Identify your top 3 Wounded Child Archetypes to reclaim your peace, time and freedom.

⤵︎

WOUNDED CHILD archetypeS TEST 

 

 

Viewed through sacred lenses, your wounds become your greatest gift.
– ELLANY LEA

The Abandoned Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Burden Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Deprived Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Disposable Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Failure Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Freak Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Insufficient Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Invisible Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Mistake Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The Powerless Child • Wounded Child Archetypes
The "Too Much" Child • Wounded Child Archetypes​
The Unsafe Child • Wounded Child Archetypes

With infinite grace,

xo, Ella

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Ellany LeaAUTHOR • When Ellany said yes to freedompreneurship, she had no idea it'd turn into a spiritual quest of reclaiming the 1,000 pieces of her soul.