To suckle the peace of karmic completion

My Opportestiny™

My Adventures of Opportunity + Test + Test + Test + Test + Test + Test + Test + Destiny

Ellany Lea - Phoenix Whisperer

Whatever pain you can’t get rid of, make it your creative offering.

– SUSAN CAIN

This is my creative offering...

Opportestiny™

3 MIN TEASER

4 Types of Knowing

28 MIN TALK

Kintsugi (金継ぎ) is the Japanese art of mending broken pottery with seams of gold.

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It honors each fragment's story and breathes new life into a once broken, now original vessel.

4 Stages of Opportestiny™

This is a story of human kintsugi, of mending my Humpty Dumpty self back together again to suckle the nectar of karmic completion. Craughing guaranteed.

STAGE 1

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The Smashing

Smash my 12 Wounded Children and 12 Wounded Adults into shards

STAGE 2

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The Healing

Heal all 4 Types of Knowing to kintsugi my 12 Wounded Children

STAGE 3

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The Reclamation

Reclaim all 4 Types of Knowing to kintsugi my 12 Wounded Adults

STAGE 4

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The Integration

"Ella, you were never the shards. You are the gold that mends."

Mind-Knowing

🧠

Learned conceptual understanding

Heart-Knowing

💖

Felt emotional comprehension

Body-Knowing

👣

Lived visceral experience

Soul-Knowing

⭐️

Re-membered universal truth

Only in the fever of creation could she recreate her own lost life.

– Anaïs Nin

This was my lost life...

Everything I ever lost... or never even had in the first place. It was an excruciating examination of decimation.

+ 12 Universal Losses

Loss of Peace
Loss of Time
Loss of Freedom
Loss of Prosperity
Loss of Joy
Loss of Embodiment

Loss of Trust in Life
Loss of Trust in sapiens
Loss of Needs
Loss of Right to feel
Loss of Ability to emote
Loss of Thriving

Grief Autopsy Report

7

Small T's

Small t

From developmental arrest and/or neglect traumas

16.5

Big T's

Big T

From acute and/or event-based traumas

10

Chronic T's

Chronic T

From repeated and/or prolonged traumas

13

Complex T's

Complex T

From comorbidity of Small, Big and Chronic traumas

9

Intergen T's

Small t

From intergenerational, inherited and/or secondary traumas

11

Pre 6 years old T's

Pre 6

From "you're f*cked for a long time, but there's hope" traumas

10

Pre 3 years old T's

Pre 3

From "you're scared for life, but not f*cked for life" traumas

14.5

Money T's

Money T

From chronic financial poverty, deprivation and/or under-support

CAUSE OF DEATH

Human curelty, stunting,  and dumbassery

MANNER OF DEATH

Chronically treated as object*, animal†, and culprit‡

* ATM, sheath, doormat, machete target
† Scapegoat, sacrificial lamb, alley dog, sitting duck
‡ Atlas, Sisyphus

CORONER'S REMARKS

Incarnation to Earth was a bad, bad idea

Note • Report does not include day-to-day micro-aggressions and micro-assaults that don't "count" as traumas. Sigh.

Grieve. Thoroughly. Anything you lose comes round in another form.

– Rumi /  Altered by Ellany Lea /

Alchemy of Grief into Glory

This is what came round in my other form... all self funded, zero loans, zero credit cards. ⤵︎

131 Countries

Exquisite Fulfillment

Spiritual Intelligence

Ageless Joy + Vitality

10 Types of Freedom

16 Career Reinventions

Woes and Zeros

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On odd days, I wake up wondering, "How am I even still alive, no less at peace in joy?" On even days, I wake up grunting, "Aww crap. Still here."

Given a history of woes and zeroes, if I wrote my whole story to my whole Self, could I be freed from this koan?

Woes

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CPTSD

ME/CFS/CDR

MCAS

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MDD

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BPI

Woes

SOS

4S

EDS

MCSS

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GAD

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PE

Woes

POTS

OCD/UM

CIRS

ARDS

CTD

GB

Zeros

0

Alcohol

0

Coffee

0

"Love"/Sex Addiction

0

Inpatient

0

Born with

0 white privilege
0 male privilege
0 connections
0 inheritance
0 trust fund
0 business DNA

Zeros

0

Drugs

0

Smoking

0

Shopping/Tech Addiction

0

Outpatient

0

Grew Up with

0 help raising parents + siblings
0 guidance
0 protection
0 nurturance
0 music
0 athletics
0 person to have my back

Zeros

0

Rx pharma

0

Eating Disorder

0

Divorce

0

Police Record

0

Survived with

0 financial aid
0 parent to pay for college
0 partner to cover my bills
0 alimony
0 court settlement
0 person to nurse me back to health

There is no greater agony than
bearing an untold story inside you.

– Maya Angelou

STAGE 1 A

The Smashing

12 Wounded Children

Know her more...

loss / death of

Innocence

Know her more...

loss / death of

Worth

Know her more...

loss / death of

Self-esteem

Know her more...

loss / death of

Appetite for life

Know her more...

loss / death of

Self-compassion

Know her more...

loss / death of

Nurturance

Know her more...

loss / death of

Relevance

Know her more...

loss / death of

Self-trust

Know her more...

loss / death of

Safety

Know her more...

loss / death of

Belonging

Know her more...

loss / death of

Validity

Know her more...

loss / death of

Deservingness

The first forty years of childhood are the hardest.

STAGE 1 B

The Smashed

12 Wounded Adults

Know her more...

loss / death of

Childhood

Know her more...

loss / death of

Dignity

Know her more...

loss / death of

Humaneness

Know her more...

loss / death of

Will to live

Know her more...

loss / death of

Genius

Know her more...

loss / death of

Identity

Know her more...

loss / death of

Radiance

Know her more...

loss / death of

Power

Know her more...

loss / death of

Wholeness

Know her more...

loss / death of

Self-expression

Know her more...

loss / death of

Equity

Know her more...

loss / death of

Choice

If you don't let your past die,
it won't let you live.

– Ellany Lea

STAGE 2

The Healing

The kintsugi of my 12 Wounded Children

HEALEDING (v.) Healed enough but ever healing...

Healeding Tracker

Innocence

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Worth

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Self-esteem

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Self-compassion

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Healeding Tracker

Nurturance

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Appetite for life

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Relevance

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Self-trust

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Healeding Tracker

Safety

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Belonging

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Validity

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Healeding Tracker

Deservingness

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Fear not the flames,
you are the fire.

– Ellany Lea

STAGE 3

The Reclamation

The kintsugi of my 12 Wounded Adults

RECLAIMEDING (v.) Reclaimed enough but ever reclaiming...

Reclaimeding Tracker

Childhood

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Dignity

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Humaneness

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Will to Live

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Genius

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Identity

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Radiance

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Power

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Wholeness

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Self-expression

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Equity

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

Reclaimeding Tracker

Choice

🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 🧠 ⚪️ ⚪️

💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 👣 ⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⚪️ ⚪️

I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it.

– Mae West

STAGE 4

The Integration

"Ella, you were never the shards. You are the gold that mends."

A little chat with the Universe ⤵︎

Hey

Sup.

So... let me get this straight.

Shoot.

For me to live safely and freely on Earth, I have to:

1. Heal all 🧠 💖 👣 ⭐️ knowings for each of my 12 Wounded Child

2. Kintsugi and raise them into healed adults

3. Reclaim all 🧠 💖 👣 ⭐️ knowings for each of my 12 Wounded Adult

4. Kintsugi and raise them into whole adults

5. Restore all adults into Moon Dragon yin and Fire Phoenix yang

6. Integrate Moon Dragon and Fire Phoenix into Ouroboros

7. Integrate Polymath and Freedompreneur into Liberator

8. Train Liberator to slash Ouroboros out of her Wheel of Karma

Yep.

Just that?

Just that.

No biggie?

They say there’s a fine line between genius and madness.
Line, what line?

– Ellany Lea

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What is your masterpiece?

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