A Wounded Child Archetype is a set of thoughts, traits and behaviours imprinted in childhood (by unconscious parental or cultural conditioning) that falsely defined you.

False Identities to Release

I don’t matter 💭

I am not important 💭

I am invisible 💭


Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Live in chronic stress / fear that it’s dangerous to be seen (eg. I’ll be burnt at the stake or hacked down to size).

🌀  Shy, always redirect focus on others to hide true self, worth, and/or power.

🌀  Unable not to give to others, even if at my own expense, exhaustion or annihilation.

🌀  Overwork and rarely create sustainable systems to fulfill my deepest needs / desires.

🌀  Wait passively for someone to “discover” me, as if waiting for permission to be me.

🌀  Feel lost or disappear self when not given a designated role in a room.

🌀  Chronically frustrated at not being able to impact others in the way(s) I know I can.

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Unintended Impact

Unintended Impact is how others may react or project onto this Wounded Child Archetype.

⚡️  Others gloss over me, don’t ask how I am and/or forget they’ve met me before

⚡️  Others don’t think of me first or choose me to be their partner or team member

⚡️  Others enjoy how puffed-up, important and seen they feel when around me, but don’t reciprocate the same level of intense attentiveness

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Gifts of the Wound

🎁  Deeply intuitive, insightful, empathetic, discerning, compassionate, nurturing, and peaceful to be around

🎁  Profoundly trustworthy, making others feel deeply safe, seen and cherished

🎁  Innate superpower to see the invisible and hear the unspoken

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.


Integration Practices

If you recognize this archetype in yourself, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that Wounded Child Archetype.

🌹 Initiate my own authentic leadership without waiting for others to invite me.

🌹 Deeply listen to and trust my inner guidance, knowing my worth and that I matter.

🌹 Prioritize my own my well being, fill my own cup before giving from my overflow.

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.


Assessment + Guidebook


Identify your top Wounded Child Archetype and access the full guidebook.




Name the would. Shed the lie. Free the soul.



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