Power of Sequencing • Top 4 Solopreneur "Wrong Order" Case Studies

Freedompreneurship and your signature masterclass are vehicles for tremendous time, creative, financial and geographical freedom and fulfillment. So why don't you have all of the above yet?

Likely, you've done all the right things... but... in the wrong order. We all fall into traps, by accident or by conditioning. It's not your fault, but it your choice to crawl out of them or not.

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Re-sequencing and Discernments

Grace Re-calibration 2022

Play the audio recording and follow the visual aids below ⤵︎


Grace Re-Sequencing - Patriarchy


Grace Re-Sequencing - Perfectionism


Re-Sequencing 1 • AWAKENING

Grace Re-Sequencing - Awakening

Re-Sequencing 2 • GRACE

Grace Re-Sequencing - Grace


Hear me loud and clear: it's not your fault that you didn't know what you didn't know. There are 101 types of conditioning that lead you to do the right things... but in the wrong order. Self-blame helps no one.

Take comfort that there are freedom seekers who have walked (or sometimes crawled) ahead of you, so you can learn from their re-sequencing.

Case Study 1 • Busyness vs. Freedom


Case Study 2 • Outside In vs. Inside Out


Case Study 3 • Lone Wolf vs. Conductor



Case Study 4 • Conformity vs. Clarity


the Power of Sequencing

If you're an overachiever, founder, or go-getter, the compulsion to skip steps is stroooooong!!! You wanted all of it done not yesterday, but 9 years ago!!!

It's painful to have to redo some steps, but this time in the right order. You may even feel grief over sunk costs of time, money and energy, or despair over the fear of ending up at the same place if you invest again.

Even so, sequencing is necessary. Imagine if your DNA was out of sequence! 😱 

My greatest wish is that you:

  1. STOP listening to the masochistic drill sergeant voice in your head. It's Patriarchy talking.
  2. STOP swimming upstream. You are NOT a salmon!
  3. STOP punishing yourself for what you couldn't have known. 

Live fierce, live free.

xo, Ella


If given one match, a lantern, and a map, would you use the match to light the lantern to see the map... or use the match to burn the map and fumble in the dark?

(First Published May 1, 2019)



Having navigated 131 countries, 87 emotions, 46.5 traumas, and 16 careers, Ellany Lea inspires and guides phoenixes, overachievers, entrepreneurs and wayshowers to live fierce, fulfilled and free.