A Wounded Child Archetype is a set of thoughts, traits and behaviours imprinted in childhood (by unconscious parental or cultural conditioning) that falsely defined you.

False Identities to Release

I am alone 💭

I am not wanted 💭

I am abandoned 💭


Do you recognize these symptoms or behaviors that perpetuate the wound?

🌀  Design my entire life inside chronic self-sufficiency and/or addictions (eg. workaholism), thus further isolating myself.

🌀  Contort self to be what others want, so to be loved, accepted and/or validated.

🌀  Overstay relationships that I’ve long outgrown because I can’t bear ending up alone and/or abandoning others.

🌀  Often feel left out or left behind personally and/or professionally (eg. last one picked for dodge ball, first one laid off from team).

🌀  Lingering sense of discontentment with where I am in life and what I have.

🌀  Avoid joining communities, so to abandon others before they can abandon me.

🌀  Leave relationships during conflict rather than stay to resolve misunderstanding and deepen intimacy.

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Unintended Impact

Unintended Impact is how others may react or project onto this Wounded Child Archetype.

⚡️  Others have no clue who I truly am, since I shape shift so often to suit who they need / desire me to be

⚡️  Others are repulsed by or keep their distance from my heavy victim energy

⚡️  Others find me unapproachable, difficult, and/or draining to be around

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Gifts of the Wound

🎁  Highly independent and exceptionally competent and resourceful

🎁  Huge capacity for deep, heart-centered, soulful connection with others

🎁  Unstoppable in achieving extraordinary results

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Integration Practices

If you recognize this archetype in yourself, here are some practices to maturate and integrate that Wounded Child Archetype.

🌹 Practice embodying gratitude by deeply seeing / appreciating everything that I already have.

🌹 Maturate my capacity for reading the room and understanding the subtleties of social cues.

🌹 Stay and work through challenges without severing connections or stunting my own growth.

... more inside the Wounded Child Archetypes guidebook.

Assessment + Guidebook


Identify your top Wounded Child Archetype and access the full guidebook.




Name the would. Shed the lie. Free the soul.



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